To have a family is a big job, especially if you are the mother, all the work on the mom’s head.I think not all the moms are the same, but I know even if the father is trying to help it is a big responsibility to have a family. I am a mother of five kids and their father, you know what I mean. At the first, I thought it will be fun to have many kids in my family” many to me means about twelve “. My lord bless me and gave me my first girl Noha. I was so excited, even it was a hard time to me. It was my first time to take care of a baby.
Life is an exciting business, and most exciting when it is lived for others. — Helen Keller (1880-1968)
What about if these others are your family! Two years later, my lord gave me my second girl Mariam. Still not that hard .My oldest is moving most of the time and noisy. My second girl is so quiet. I think this was a blessing.
Life is still going, harder a little bit but I still can do it. I was thinking it just about time and they will grow up and every thing will be easy. Two years later, my lord gave me the third Dalya. Dalya was a totally different experience for so many reasons.First my husband was away out of the country! Second the experience of delivered Dalya myself was horrible,I was waiting too much time at home having all the pain. Then I remembered my grandma,she used to tell us how she used to deliver her babies with no help.
I remembered the only first part and I did it, believe me I did it.Only the first part!I push her out and I did not know what the next step. I waited connected with her for about 15 min. Until the midwife came and she completed the mission. It was a really long day! But you know what? It was not for nothing! She is an adorable little girl and a healthy baby.
Believe it or not , I had not yet recognized what a heavy duty I have ! I love kids and I thought the hard part is the young age. Imagine how it is fun to have three baby at five years. I was surrounded with my family and my husband’s family. Now I understand , I was totally wrong.
After about four months, I got the chance to catch my husband out the country. I was brave. Imagine traveler mother with three baby. Noha was four years old, Mariam was two years old, Dalya was four months. I bought new clothes for the three of them, they looked so cute .
Oh, I forgot to tell you where I am from!! I start my journey from Gaza to Egypt. My mom’s family is Egyptian. So I went to Egypt to see them. The last time I saw them was before my marriage.
You can travel between Gaza and Egypt by car. It takes about six hours to reach Cairo, Egypt. Another bless from my Lord, I had a really good company. A family, a man, a woman and their two daughters, they were so nice to me and my kids. I was impressed by them, I never saw anyone like them before. If you travel between Gaza and Egypt,You need more than one transportation. I was like between my family, they were supposed to go before the place I need. But they insist to go with me to the place where I want to go!!!To be sure I am safe !
Believe it or not,I do not even know their name right now,But I can not forget their favor.
Finally I was between my mom’s family. Oh my goodness, Five years is a lot! Every one of them was different. The kids were not kids any more, My uncles and my aunts were older. I spent time with them for about three weeks. Then I bought my tickets to U.S.A. That was my first time to ride a plane. Imagine a mom with a three babies and a very, very big and heavy hand bag! Do not ask me how the airplane’s people let me do it.
I never let myself worry about the future. So I did not think about how hard my journey could be ??
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